Wow, my life is starting to integrate. Groups of people I used to make an effort to keep separate are merging - right here on LJ in fact. I am making more and more people aware of my journal. I no longer feel the need to hide it and all my issues from people. I used to be enough ashamed of myself and my thoughts, feelings, etc. to not want many of my "real life" friends, family etc. to even know my journal existed. I'm learning just to be me - people can accept or reject that. If they reject who I am then I just plain don't need them. I no longer am imprisoned within the need for others' approval!
Oh look - another quote from the Tao Te Ching:
9
Fill your bowl to the brim
and it will spill.
Keep sharpening your knife
and it will blunt.
Chase after money and security
and your heart will never unclench.
Care about people's approval
and you will be their prisoner.
Do your work, then step back.
The only path to serenity.