*laughs* No, we weren't actually trying to live by those - we were trying to make explicit things that were just implied or assumed in our families of origin so we'd have some idea where each other was coming from and be able to find some middle ground and meet each others needs and expectations as much as possible. I haven't run across his list from his workbook yet, but I'm sure it would be much different.
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Date: 2005-04-04 06:31 pm (UTC)